Backlash and Remorse: Connor McCaffery Apologizes for Insensitive Post on Charlie Kirk’s Tragic Death..
UTAH / INDIANAPOLIS — The shockwaves from the assassination of conservative activist Charlie Kirk on September 11, 2025, continue to reverberate across the nation, exposing not only deep ideological divisions but also dragging unexpected figures into the storm. The 31-year-old founder of Turning Point USA, a fiery voice for youth conservatism, was shot and killed during a rally at Utah Valley University, in full view of supporters and his young family.
The assassination, instantly branded by commentators as one of the most politically charged acts of violence in recent memory, plunged the nation into a state of mourning. Politicians, athletes, and celebrities issued condolences, among them Vice President J.D. Vance, who called Kirk’s death “a tragedy for America’s future,” and WNBA superstar Caitlin Clark, who urged a “nationwide moment of silence” on her social platforms.
But while vigils were held and tributes poured in, a darker undercurrent surged online. Videos and memes celebrating Kirk’s death began circulating, posted by left-leaning users who described his assassination as “justice.” Outrage erupted almost immediately. Employers fired staffers linked to celebratory posts, the FCC opened probes into digital broadcasts mocking the death, and across the political spectrum, leaders decried what they called a new low in American public discourse.
The McCaffery Shock

Into this volatile atmosphere stepped an unexpected name: Connor McCaffery, 27, assistant coach with the Butler Bulldogs, former standout for the Iowa Hawkeyes, and boyfriend of Caitlin Clark, the WNBA’s brightest star and face of the Indiana Fever.
Late Wednesday night, just hours after Kirk’s assassination dominated national headlines, screenshots surfaced of an alleged post from McCaffery’s account on X (formerly Twitter). The message, now deleted but seen more than 50,000 times, read:
“One less fake news peddler. Good riddance to bad rubbish. #CharlieKirk.”
The backlash was swift, fierce, and unrelenting. Critics denounced the post as “heartless,” “vile,” and “unworthy of anyone tied to professional sports.” The criticism carried even greater weight because of McCaffery’s relationship with Clark — the WNBA star whose wholesome reputation and meteoric rise have helped drive a 200% surge in league viewership over the past year.
Perhaps most painful was the reaction from Erika Kirk, Charlie’s widow, who tweeted: “Connor’s words dishonor a man with a family and a mission. My children watched their father die. Words like this deepen the wound.”
The Context: An Unlikely Link
The outrage was amplified by Kirk’s recent connection to Clark. Just months earlier, on his podcast, Kirk had praised the Fever guard for her grit amid referee controversies, calling her “the future of American resilience.” Clark had even reposted the clip, writing: “Appreciate voices like this lifting us up.”
That bond, however unlikely, made McCaffery’s alleged insult feel not just cruel but contradictory — a betrayal of the respect Kirk himself had extended.
The Apology
By Thursday morning, McCaffery sought to contain the damage. Posting on Instagram alongside a somber black-and-white photo of Kirk, the 6’5” coach delivered a lengthy apology:
“I let anger cloud my judgment last night. Charlie Kirk was a father, husband, and patriot whose life was stolen in an act of pure evil. My words were nasty, wrong, and hurtful to his family and fans. No one deserves this tragedy. I’m deeply sorry — to Erika, their kids, Caitlin, and everyone affected. I’ll be donating anonymously to Turning Point USA in Charlie’s honor and stepping back from social media to reflect. Hate has no place in sports or society.”
The apology drew mixed responses. Some praised the humility, noting McCaffery’s acknowledgment of the family. Others accused him of backtracking only under pressure.
Caitlin Clark Responds

For Caitlin Clark, whose season had already ended due to a devastating ankle injury during the Fever’s playoff push, the moment was fraught. Caught between her loyalty to her partner and her reverence for Kirk’s memory, Clark addressed the issue publicly in a practice interview.
Her voice steady but eyes heavy, she said:
“Connor owns his mistake. We’re human, we mess up. But Charlie’s legacy of empowering young people? That’s what endures.”
Sources close to the couple revealed that Clark herself had urged McCaffery to apologize, drawing from her own long battles with online criticism and trolls.
A Family and a League Respond
McCaffery’s misstep didn’t exist in a vacuum. His brother, NFL star Christian McCaffery, has previously faced backlash for political tweets, making the family familiar with controversy. Still, the connection to Clark elevated this episode into national headlines, intertwining WNBA playoffs, celebrity culture, and political violence in a way few could have imagined.
Even within the league, reactions rippled. Sophie Cunningham, a veteran forward, wrote in a widely shared Instagram post: “Apologies don’t erase pain, but they start healing. We need more grace, even in moments of anger.”
At Gainbridge Fieldhouse, Fever fans showed a surprising response. During their semifinal matchup against the Connecticut Sun, fans chanted “We forgive”, a gesture many interpreted as support for Clark more than McCaffery. The scene was emotional, underscoring Clark’s singular power to unite even in controversy.
Bigger Picture: A Polarized Digital Age
The episode crystallized the dangers of fame in the digital age. For public figures and those close to them, a single ill-timed post can overshadow years of work. McCaffery, whose coaching career was just beginning, suddenly found himself branded online as a villain.
The larger story, however, is the cultural divide over Kirk’s death. While investigators continue probing the alleged shooter — identified as a 22-year-old anti-fascist activist — the national conversation has shifted toward morality, civility, and the role of social media in shaping reactions to tragedy.
“The digital age magnifies every misstep,” one media analyst observed. “McCaffery’s words, though deleted, will follow him for years. But his apology — and Caitlin Clark’s grace — may also serve as a model for redemption.”
A Moment of Unity?
For now, McCaffery remains absent from the Bulldogs’ bench, reportedly attending a private memorial service for Kirk. Clark continues to draw headlines as the Fever push forward in the playoffs, her every word dissected as both athlete and cultural symbol.
If there is one takeaway, it may be that grief, anger, and forgiveness can coexist. The chants of “We forgive” in Indianapolis revealed something unexpected: even in division, grace is possible.
In the end, the story is no longer just about a deleted tweet or a coach’s mistake. It is about the fragility of reputation in the digital age, the endurance of human compassion, and the way one woman — Caitlin Clark — remains at the intersection of tragedy, controversy, and hope for something better.
